heatherheggie: The way I touch Jon's arm in the middle of the night and the way our toes touch ( thru my socks) in bed are sone of the happiest sweetest moments I have being married... I love his deep breathing and warm touch and feel 100% securely loved by him-- what a gift marriage is- whew hard, but amazing... I love putting a drink out each night on counter simply to acknowledge that my heart is right each night before you walk in from work to love on you properly. It started out as an act of appreciation for you, but that small pausing in cooking helps me to prioritize the rest of my night- it's a new heart shift from kids and food to hubby- it's become a gift to me--to focus on him and God-- love you Jon Christopher Heggie thank you for marrying me!!